Expert Advice from wedding guru, Sharon Naylor

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While some families have a tradition of weddings, birthday parties and other big events being potlucks, the one thing that makes this a little bit of a challenge is that you may have people on your guest list [from lots of different regions and cultures who have never heard of a potluck arrangement for a wedding] who may find it to be a questionable practice, and some might even get offended. Yes, it may be totally acceptable and fun in your circle, the way you've always done weddings in your world, but wedding guest lists often spread past your regional people and family, and some couples find that the money-savings really isn't that worth it if some people can get offended. Besides, there are so many ways to plan a reception menu and cake on a budget that it can come out very much on par with having a potluck! My book 1001 Ways to Save Money and Still Have a Dazzling Wedding, 3rd edition, will give you hundreds of ideas that will save you money, prevent any unnecessary drama or judgment and also give you all the fun and creativity of arranging a low-budget, personalized and amazing menu!