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Expert Advice from wedding guru, Sharon Naylor

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Sharon Naylor

Sharon Naylor is the author of over 35 wedding planning books and a frequent guest expert on Get Married with Colin Cowie, Good Morning America, and other top shows. Recently featured in such magazines as Martha Stewart Wedding, InStyle Weddings, Brides, Modern Bride and Southern Bride, she is the iVillage Weddings expert and host of "Here Come the Moms" at Wedding Podcast Network.

She lives in Morristown NJ with her husband Joe, and loved using Wedding Mapper for her own April '08 wedding.

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Hi Sharon,
My fiance and I are trying to plan our wedding. We're really set on March 2012. I know we have a year to plan but I'm terrified we're not going to be ready when it comes. We haven't really decided on anything. We're thinking about a green and pink wedding. How should I dress the bridesmaids, maid of honor, best man, and groomsmen. We're also wanting my 2 little nephews to be the ring beariers. We don't want a flower girl, because there's no little girls in the family. Would that look okay? We're also on a budget. Around 10,000. How would I plan? Like what would be the top things I need to focus on?

Thanks for any help you can give.
Brittany

Answer:

Hi Brittany!
There's lots of time, so don't worry! A wedding coordinator can really help you time out your planning, so look at www.bridalassn.com to find a great coordinator who can help you out.

First, make your guest list to see the size of wedding you plan to have, and that will show you what kind of locations that may be best. A small wedding can call for a gallery or museum, and a big wedding can call for a hotel ballroom or country club. When you have a starter guest list, you can figure out how your budget will work. To do this, you and your fiance should list out your top priority items, like the catering, music, photos, flowers, etc...so you can see where you're going to devote the bigger parts of your budget. Also, list out what you don't want.

Next, start looking at places for your ceremony and reception, and think about an afternoon wedding (that often costs less than a nighttime wedding and can be identically formal to a night reception.) When you book your ceremony and reception spots, you have your wedding date, and from there you can get into doing the rest of your planning.

My book, The Busy Bride's Essential Checklists, will help you with each step of the planning, so look for it on Amazon. And also, use the planning tools here at Wedding Mapper to have some fun with your planning!

For your bridesmaids' dresses, a light green with light green and pink bouquets would be pretty, but it's entirely up to you. It also depends on the season of your wedding.

And it's okay to have just ringbearers and no flower girls! you can plan your wedding party however you'd like!

Have fun, don't stress, and take it one step at a time :]

Sharon


Comments:

Comment From ivyandtyler:
Hi There,

I am not sure when you posted this but it sounds just like I would write this. My wedding is in March 2012, my colors are the same and so is my budget.

We are thinking of something outdoors with trees, atrium and water and then indoors are in a historical house.

Good luck!!
Bella


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