Expert Advice from wedding guru, Sharon Naylor
Question:
My husband and I got married five years ago this April. He was a 47yr. old bachelor and I had been married before. I gave him the choice for a wedding or the courthouse, he chose the courthouse. Our friends were sad to not get to celebrate with us and so we decided to renew our vows this next year on our fifth anniversary. I am not sure what is appropriate or not for the entire situation. Can we have a ceremony with a dress and flowers, etc.
Answer:
Yes, you can plan this celebration however youd' like! My book 'Renewing your Wedding Vows' at www.sharonnaylor.net will provide you with all the planning details you need, plus etiquette rules about gifts and bridal party naming [yes, you can have a bridal party, as well as any element of a 'first wedding' besides the veil. That's still out] The book also has examples of 30 real-life couples who renewed their vows, so you can borrow from their ideas!
So to answer your question, you can make this celebration as large or small as you wish, as formal or informal, even make it a destination 'wedding' which is also a big trend now that so many resorts have vow renewal packages at great discount for you and guests.
Have fun! So glad to hear you get the do-over!
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